Meeting Death at the Front Door
by Nina by Melina Meza "Research shows that most Americans do not die well, which is to say they do not die the way they say they want to � at home, surrounded by the people who love them. According to data from Medicare, only a third of patients die this way. More than 50 percent spend their final days in hospitals, often in intensive care units, tethered to machines and feeding tubes, or in nursing homes.� �Dan Gorenstein from �How Doctors Die� Yesterday I heard a very moving piece How Doctors Die on NPR that made me think again about an issue close to my heart: being able to face death with courage. My mother died of breast cancer at age 85, and she was able to die with hospice care at home without any invasive procedures, any time in a nursing home or being �tethered� to any machines. Because I was talking to her doctors for her and coordinating her care, I can testify that this was only possible because my mother was clear-eyed about her condition and was willin...